A reminder for parents of future first-graders

At the age of 6 – 7, brain mechanisms are formed that allow a child to be successful in learning. Doctors believe that at this time the child is very difficult. And a thousand times our great-grandmothers were right, who sent their descendants to high school only at the age of 9, when the nervous system was already formed. However, serious disruptions and diseases can be avoided today, if you follow the simplest rules.
Rule 1
Never send a child to first grade and a section or circle at the same time. The very beginning of school life is considered a severe stress for seven-year-olds. If the baby is not able to walk, rest, do homework without haste, he may have health problems, neurosis. Therefore, if music and sports seem to be a necessary part of your upbringing, start taking your child to these clubs a year before or from the second grade.
Rule 2
Remember that a child can concentrate for no more than 10 to 15 minutes. Therefore, when you do homework with them, you should take a break every 10 to 15 minutes and be sure to do witj your child exercise. You can just ask to jump on the spot 10 times, run or dance for a few minutes. It is better to start doing homework with writing. You can alternate written assignments with oral ones. The total duration of classes should not exceed one hour.
Rule 3 
The computer, the TV, and any exercise that requires a lot of visual load should last no more than an hour a day, according to ophthalmologists and neurologists in all countries of the world.
Rule 4 
During the first year of school, your kid needs support. The child not only forms relationships with classmates and teachers, but also for the first time understands that someone wants to be friends with them and someone does not. It is at this time that the kid develops his own view of himself. And if you want him to grow into a calm and confident person, be sure to praise him! Support, do not scold for and carelessness in the notebook. All this is a trifle compared to the fact that from endless reproaches and punishments your child will not believe in himself.
A few short rules:
Show your children that you love them for who they are, not for any achievements. You can never (even in a fit of anger) tell a child that he is worse than others. You need to answer any of their questions honestly and patiently. Try to find time every day to be alone with your child. Teach your child to communicate freely not only with their peers, but also with adults. Feel free to emphasize that you are proud of your kid. Be honest in assessing your feelings for the child. 
Always tell your child the truth, even when it is unprofitable for you. Evaluate only the actions. Do not succeed by force. Coercion is the worst option for moral education. Coercion in the family violates the child’s identity. Recognize the child’s right to make a mistake. Think of a children’s “bank” of happy memories. The child treats himself as adults treat him. And in general, at least sometimes put yourself in the place of your child, and then you will better understand how to raise them.