Parental commandments

• Our children, our mirror. Under no circumstances should we behave the way we do not want our children to behave.

• Don’t force your child to do what is really necessary. 

• One such time is enough for the child to stop doing it at all.Don’t say that you willn’t love a child in case of disobedience!

• In no case don’t try to achieve your goal by scaring the child.

• Don’t criticize the child (because them are the best!). Criticize the bad deed itself.

• Always explain why it is necessary to do so in this situation.

• If it isn’t possible to explain immediately, promise to explain later and be sure to keep your promise. 

• Don’t set the child against someone, do not “burden” your problems. 

• Do not neglect caresses. 

• Encourage individualism, respect the child’s opinion. 

• Do not criticize anyone in the presence of a child. 

• Do not criticize a child and a man in the presence of strangers.

• Respect the feelings of loved ones, we are all human and have the right to both positive and negative emotions.

6 vital messages that a child should receive daily:

• I believe in you!

• I trust you!

• I know you can deal with life’s problems!

• You are heard and respected!

• You’re loved!

• You are important and uniquely special!

How to send these messages:

• by eyes;

• the tone of voice;

• movements;

• by touch;

• sincere compliments;

• your questions about their lives;

• your emotions;

• your ability to work;

• your own example;

• encouragement.